I guess when it’s meant to be, it just happens easily. You don’t have to pretend. You don’t really have to try hard. You don’t force it. You won’t have to feel sorry and you don’t regret why you are with this person. EVER. You can’t think of being with someone else, and you won’t think that the person you are with IS someone else. You accept them for who they are, and you love them despite their flaws. You are proud to introduce them as your partner, and never have you felt ashamed. You aren’t left wondering if you’re supposed to be with someone else. You neither feel pressured to stay, nor stay because of guilt. You stay because you love to, and it doesn’t take a lot of time to figure out that you’ve fallen in love… because you felt it since day 1. You just click!
Others who are in a relationship but didn’t start this way may never get it, and might be jealous that we have worked out well, and didn’t require extra time to realize that we were in love. We actually pity those who are in an on-off relationship because it’s like merely settling for what’s already there. Real love doesn’t end. It doesn’t need a break. It doesn’t need a second chance because you’ll do it right the first time around. Only unhappy “couples” would be cynical about us because they feel the need to be happy about themselves and their so-called “relationship.” Pity, pity… They don’t even know half of the entire story of how we started, yet THEY FEEL CERTAIN TO JUDGE. It wasn’t with a company of friends when we fell for each other… It was with a quiet dinner and a promenade in the city. We’re happy just being together, and we don’t need to be in a group of friends to have fun. We complete each other. That’s love.
Batu-bato sa langit, ang tamaan… guilty!
** originally posted around a month ago **
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